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Hi!  I am Bianca, a Life Coach Edenvale Johannesburg.  If you need help with life transformation coaching in Edenvale then I am your life coach.

I am a qualified life coach Edenvale Johannesburg and a Negative Emotional Therapy Practitioner and Neuro Linguistic Programming Practitioner life coach.

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About Me

This is me, Bianca Badenhorst.

The Founder of B Transformed (Pty) Ltd.

Your Transformational Life Coach, Negative Emotional Therapy Practitioner and Neuro Linguistic Programming Practitioner.

I grew up in a loving home, always surrounded by a lot of love and laughter. Our parents always supported and encouraged us in everything we did.  When I was a child everything seemed uncomplicated but as years passed by life naturally became more complex. Relationships developed that created my insecurities, social expectations were making it hard for me to stay true to who I really was.

I got engaged at the age of 21 and eventually married after a 7 year engagement. We bought a house; I completed my studies and soon thereafter tried to start a family.  To everyone around me it seemed like I had it all, the “perfect life”…

I was proud of myself and for everything I had achieved but there was an emptiness inside of me, I was always left wanting more from life. I felt like I was constantly trying to prove my worth to people that already forgotten my value. I wanted to feel like I mattered and I wanted to make more of a difference.

After a busy yet mundane day at work, stopping in our driveway, I asked myself: “Is this it, is this my life? Is my life just one big tiresome routine?”  This question would set the tone of my evening.

Wishing and praying for guidance and waiting for an answer to this pending question. After I completed my studies, I finally had more time in my hands to do the things I enjoyed – meditation, yoga and reading. I bought my first of many self-help books and started doing a lot of soul searching. I wanted to connect with the person I once was and at the same time wanted to re-invent myself.

I was operating on Auto-pilot.

I was oblivious to what was happening in my own life, I allowed myself to float through life unconsciously and I didn’t realise the extent of the damage until many years later.  I started peeling off years of social conditioning (how we have been influenced by our parents, family, teachers, religion, society etc). Conditioning that left me feeling lost, anxious and overwhelmed.

The pressure of my studies, establishing my career and “playing house” was causing me to lose sight of who I was as an individual. My everyday life kept me feeling like I needed to do the “right thing” (Stay in a job I wasn’t happy in, staying in a relationship that no longer fulfilling) making it work, trying to be prefect and keep everyone else happy and not “rocking the boat” that I completely forgot who I was  outside of my responsibilities and relationship.

I couldn’t even remember who I was any more.

I constantly felt tense, angry, stressed and the sad thing was that most time I didn’t even know why I felt the way I did.  I was so busy conforming to the “normalities” of life that I completely neglected the most important person in my existence…ME.

It took a very scary and traumatic event for me to realise that I wasn’t living my dream but rather someone else’s.  In the midst of all the drama and exhaustion I experienced an awaking moment where for the first time I felt like everything in my life made sense.  During that traumatic experience, in that exact moment of disbelieve, shock, fear and absolute frustration caused me to snap out of the denial and the charade I was living in.

I wasn’t happy and what I wanted from life wasn’t something that money could buy.  The thing that was missing in my life, the thing that my soul was yearning for was PURPOSE.

For once I had to be brave for myself , I had to snap out of the denial  I was living and access my life. I had to let go of the negative emotions  that was holding me back from the life I wanted to live.  I had to dig deep to find the courage I forgot I had within me and do everything in my power to change my situation. I started focusing on my personal growth and regained focus on the dream I once had for myself.

In this moment I knew I had to make one of the most difficult decisions in my life to date.

It was one that would change my life forever… it haunted me day in and day out but I eventually  terminated a lonely, unhappy marriage that no longer had my best interests at heart and not long after that I quit my unsatisfying career as an accountant.

The decisions were by no means easy, I mean…two of the most stressful events one could go through I did a month apart. It was emotionally overwhelming and I couldn’t allow the opinion or judgement of others to affect me or my decisions. I experienced a lot of shame and guilt for putting myself first.  I was riddled with fear – the fear of the unknown but would not allow those emotions to control me.

I had to stay focused on the positive intention I had set for myself.  I soon realised that I had to stop resisting the change and embrace the journey, the journey that would unlock my passion and help me find my PURPOSE.

Through my journey I could identify my anger, my fears and the limiting believes that were holding me back from discovering my true potential and purpose. Knowing that I was becoming the person I always wanted to be was the greatest source of inspiration for those around me.

Today I am living my highest joy, serving my purpose and making a difference in other people’s lives.

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